These are the things we want to remember. These are the good days and the bad days, ours as well as Dad's. Rick is my father, diagnosed with Alzheimer's in August 2003. Joyce is my mother, Rick's primary caregiver. Bev is Rick's sister, the one who knows more than the rest of us because she was their mother's primary cargiver. Cheryl and Erin are my sisters, and I'm Tamara.